How to Love the Coworker You Just Can’t Stand

1. Pray for Silence.

The more you talk about “the problem with that person”, the more you’ll find the negative feelings growing inside you, and you’ll begin to increasingly dislike this person. The more you grumble, the harder your heart will become. When we’re mad, it’s easy to say things out of anger or frustration, but remember, these are words you cannot take back easily once out there. Choose to stay silent and hold your words back. Yes, it’s very hard because we all express our emotions through words. But instead of speaking through your emotions first, if you pray to the Lord and ask for self-control, you can keep yourself from saying things that can hurt others. Remember, our words are powerful; with them you can reveal love and heal others, or you can harm and destroy. Do not use your words recklessly, especially when you are frustrated or losing it emotionally. 

2. Pray for Discernment >>>>>