Don’t settle for less than your destiny

The notion that God formed a romantic partner out there tailor-made just for you is alluring. After all, who wouldn’t want to find perfect love? Who wouldn’t want that special someone with whom everything falls naturally into place? The idea of the soul mate leaves many in the Church with hearts aflutter, eagerly awaiting that fateful day when the heavens will open up and their perfect partner will appear before them, hand-delivered by God, Himself.

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Unfortunately, this is an idea that is ruining Christian marriages.

While this assertion may seem to fly in the face of everything you’ve ever been taught about romance, let’s take a look at why divinely perfect mates simply aren’t Biblical, how the belief in them can negatively affect your relationships, and why you’re so much better off letting go of the idea of perfection.